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 Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2003 8:05 pm Post subject: Does race matter in romance? |
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Since Malaysia is a multi-races country, will race be a problem in relationship? Do you or having friends that on different races relationship? Is there any pressure from your parents? Maybe can share with us with your experience.
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jcleo
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race shouldnt be a matter in romance. u love somebody not bcoz who he/she is but bcoz who u are. lovers in dissimilar race dont mean they dont love each oths as much as those in similar race.
myself dont hv the experience, but my family have. my parents didnt object abt that. they believe that if he & she really loves each other, there should be no problem. besides, that isnt under our control coz we only viewer for them. for me, actually i care. but as a family member, i should support their decision. so...i will try to accept n bless them. |
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KillianLuvWong
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I'm a malaysian and I'm dating a Half Nigerian half Jaimaican guy. Its alot of pressure because in Labuan, hardly or I think nobody has ever had this sort of relationhsip I guess?And the problem is that most people here perceive Black people as a Con man, a murderer, women abuser and etc. etc. etc so yeah, its hard but I think if its a White men, maybe Malaysian people will think differently.
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| Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 11:42 am Post subject: Re: Does race matter in romance? |
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| Admin wrote: | | Since Malaysia is a multi-races country, will race be a problem in relationship? Do you or having friends that on different races relationship? Is there any pressure from your parents? Maybe can share with us with your experience. |
BIG NO for me.... Race is NO BIG Deal actually as long as we love that guy/girl. i think our family also is sporting & understanding. but 1 thing is if u r non-muslim (guy/girl) and want to married to muslim guy/girl....u must convert to muslim first. Hehehe...Huhuhu...am i right? but for me,it's ok bcoz for me all religion is the same....semuanya mengajar kita kpd yg BAIK dan bukan yg BURUK!!!
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| Posted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:41 am Post subject: Re: Does race matter in romance? |
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| Admin wrote: | | Since Malaysia is a multi-races country, will race be a problem in relationship? Do you or having friends that on different races relationship? Is there any pressure from your parents? Maybe can share with us with your experience. |
hmmm I do have a problem. It sounds silly for some people. I am a professional engineer in London (I came to do BEng and MSc in uk and got a job after graduated.)and my bf is white british, we met through work. By the way, I am chinese Thai. We went to Spain during new year and I had bad comments from Phillipino waitresses who work in the restaurant, we visited that I am from thailand and probably a call girl!!!! they don't even know me!!! ...sake!!!
Hmmm I did feel embarrassing to be with my bf when those narrow minded asians are around. It was not comfortable to holding hands when they already judge me by being thai. I wonder that if I have asian bf, they 'd look at me differently. They can not say all thai girls are prostitutes!!!
My malaysian classmates when I was at uni always make fun for sex industry in thailand...this makes thai women look very bad.
My sister was doing PhD in Waseda uni in Tokyo, she went to party with japanese bf. She said her bf was so afraid that people is going to judge her because she is from thaialnd. So he introduced her like this 'she is from thailand but she is doing Phd at waseda!!'..at the end of the party no one knew her name, they knew only that she is from thailand but she was doing PhD in waseda.
|So I think race does matter!!!
what do you say. |
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kent
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The answer obviously is:
It only makes a difference from other people's view points.....  |
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| Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 10:41 pm Post subject: Re: Does race matter in romance? |
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| Admin wrote: | | Since Malaysia is a multi-races country, will race be a problem in relationship? Do you or having friends that on different races relationship? Is there any pressure from your parents? Maybe can share with us with your experience. |
 for me race is doesn't matter 
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For me it doesn't matter where you came from as long you both love each other. Forget about the criticism. Just focus on the romance that you had to a certain person. Love has no limitation and true love knocks only once in your door.
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| Racing is no problems in my relationships even though sometimes I am perturbed that she can run faster than me. |
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| hm...if the family's not agree, it's hard to continue the relationship. Family always comes 1st tho. |
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Your 100% Truefriend.... I agree with you, I am a white guy married to a Philipino I met in Labuan 15 yrs ago. even now, small minded people look at her with the "golddigger" eyes and assume she is or was a GRO. she was a company secretary when we met and it dosent matter what we do, some people will allways look down on mixed relationships. The beauty of it all is that we dont give a shit what people think as long as we love each other.
Relgion can be a bigger problem than race.....No comment. |
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alex88
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Hi,
Ya in my point of view race is important in romance. I am saying like that because i have experience in this field.
Thanks !
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